There is nothing more adorable than a kitten. They are cute, cuddly, and playful, and provoke much of the same emotional reaction in us as a human baby. We instinctively want to protect and care for them. Like a human child, however, a kitten must be raised properly to turn into a healthy adult cat without emotional, psychological, or behavioral problems. When adding a kitten to the family, we must be willing to educate ourselves on how to handle them and what not to do. Just because we have had adult cats in the past, it doesn’t mean that we automatically know what to do with a kitten.

The foundation of many behavior problems in adult cats has been laid in kittenhood. Certain types of aggression, for instance, can be caused by things a cat has learned or failed to learn as a kitten. How we handle a kitten, and how we play and interact with them will naturally impact how the adult cat behaves around us. Kittens need boundaries but should not be shouted at or treated roughly. Such handling will not establish the loving human-cat bond we dream of. Make sure you research where your kitten comes from. In an ideal situation, kittens should stay with the mother cat until the age of 12 weeks.

Kittens Playing. Photo by: Anna Hinckel.
Too Much Play! Photo by: Gunhild Jensen.

That gives them sufficient time to develop psychologically and emotionally and learn important life lessons from their siblings and mother. However, many human breeders remove kittens from their mothers as soon as they can eat solid food. It can be as early as six weeks and often results in overly anxious adult cats prone to compulsive behaviors such as fabric chewing and wool sucking (see the section on compulsive behaviors).

Kittens also deserve a safe home environment. They are more curious than adult cats, because they are still learning valuable life lessons that will guide their future behavior, and it is our responsibility to keep harmful human objects away from them. Electrical cords, for instance, should not be freely accessible to kittens as they will chew on them and might end up electrocuting themselves. Similarly, not every movable object is an appropriate toy for a baby cat. Choking deaths are sadly common in cats of all ages.

If you are looking for advice on how to raise a kitten, Smiling Kitty can help! We can tell you what to do and what to avoid, how to best handle and discipline your kitten, how to kitten-proof your house, and what toys encourage positive play. Book a Cat Care Consultation with us to discuss what you and your kitten need!

If you live in the Stamford CT area, you can also book a Kitty Spa Day through Smiling Kitty and have our expert cat behaviorist train your kitten. Read more here!

Exploring! Photo by: Samantha Frisoli.